Mutual Responsibility
Bible Reading:
Heidelberg
Catechism q/a 85
John
10: 1-18
Matthew
18: 15-20
PREPARED BY
KEN GEHRELS
PASTOR
CALVIN CHRISTIAN REFORMED CHURCH
NEPEAN, ONTARIO
Question for those of you that have been part of the church scene for some
years: If I say the phrase "church discipline" what picture comes
to mind?
"Church Discipline."
If you’re out of the old
time Reformed tradition perhaps you envision elders sitting around a table,
a young girl in front of them with her boyfriend, having been caught in
inappropriate behaviour, a time of confession and red faces.
Uneasy visits to the home by church officials.
Doors slamming to unwelcome intruders.
Excommunication.
Christian Disicipline - the
topic of the Heidelberg Catechism, our church’s old and yet still reliable
teaching guide on the truths of scripture.
It’s a topic that makes the blood pressure of some go up, leaves others
shaking their head, and a few walking away in dismay.
It’s also a dangerous topic.
To dare to tread onto this ground and consider it; to dare to step out
and practice it is dangerous. History is littered with the wrecks of lives
who have been smashed to bits by clumsy, stormy uses of church discipline.
HOWEVER
It is EQUALLY dangerous not to tread on this ground; not
to consider it; not daring to step out and practice it. There are plenty
of folks around caught in delusion or confusion as they wander without
any awareness that their spiritual radar guidance system is completely
out of synch with eternal reality.
Church discipline -
Dangerous to do it.
Dangerous to avoid it.
AND
A topic that involves you. It’s not just for some fanatical parish priest.
It’s not just for a group of solemn, grey-haired elders or deacons.
Give me 5 minutes to try
and show how this is so.
If at that point you remain
unconvinced, then please start to count the number of rows of bricks in
the wall behind me, and let me know how many you find. I’ve never been
able to get that number straight.
Church Discipline -
What is it, ultimately?
What is that critter named discipline??
You can see the word "disciple" in there - which comes from a root latin word meaning "pupil." The disciple is one who follows, learns from, and models her life after the Teacher. She disciples her existence. That is - she shapes, moulds, and strengthens her life so that it falls in line with the teaching and life of the Master. Sometimes this happens through adding and building up one or more areas of her thought and action. Sometimes it happens through pulling back, tying down, cutting out some part of her life. She practices discipline.
Discipline - we experience
it in various areas of life.
Athletics
Music
Education
Business
Each with their own set of training procedures, guides and techniques –
what are sometimes called disciplines
Done occasionally by one’s
self. But only occasionally. Generally when we try to follow a teacher
and do it alone the results are mediocre at best. Which is why athletes
find a coach, musicians get personal instructors, students of any sort
look for a teacher to guide them and hold them to a training schedule.
That’s why in the business world today more and more young executives who
want to succeed are looking for a mentor – someone who will guide them
through the rigours and unknown ground of disciplining their lives in appropriate
ways.
Discipline.
Consider all of that, then,
in the world of faith - spiritual discipline, discipline in the life of
the Christian and in the life of the Church.
Go back with me to earliest
times among the people of God, Old Testament times in the nation of Israel,
and you discover that the people charged with the task of being the spiritual
mentors,
the guides, leaders, trend-setters,
were the priests.
They were the go-betweens, representing god and His message to people,
and bringing people to an encounter with God.
Priests were a special group of people, special training, living special
lives. They were to find the floundering people, questioning people, hurting
people, wandering people, discouraged people and bring them back to God.
But that was way back then.
Things have changed.
Now it is New Testament
time. We are in the era that Revelation 5 speaks about. Listen to these
words of praise to Jesus:
"with your blood you purchases people for God from every tribe and language and group and nation. You have made them to be a kingdom and......now get these next words
A priest is anyone purchased
by Jesus and owned by God.
Can you see where the label
hangs, believer?
On your chest!
Welcome aboard!
Welcome to the community of priests.
Welcome to a community of people charged with the task of being intermediaries between God and other people. Welcome to the community charged with bringing the wounded, wandering, floundering back to the Lord. Welcome to the community of people privileged to guide others along their faith training program.
If there is one theme that
rings loud and clear through the entire New Testament, it is the theme
of mutual responsibility. That no believer may echo the words of Esau,
"Am I my brother or sister’s keeper" when it comes to matters of
faith and life.
Each stands accountable for the other.
Oh, yes, to be sure, the
Bible does speak of people specially called, gifted, and appointed to provide
leadership in this challenge. And depending on one’s faith tradition these
men & women have different names:
priests, deacons, elders, pastors, evangelists.
They are the pace-setters,
the models, the guides for the rest of the Church. They show the rest how
to do it. They encourage us to keep doing it, and they facilitate and coordinate
the doing of it.
But they DON’T do it alone.
The task of discipling, the
task of discipline,
Striving together towards full maturity of character and behaviour in Jesus
Rejoicing with those who reach major milestones
Calling others to join us in the race,
Encouraging those who become tired,
Redirecting those who have become disoriented
Picking up those that have fallen in the ditch.....
.....the task of discipled
living belongs to the entire community of priests.
Everyone in the community
of priests - you and me included - is called to serve as an assistant
shepherd. And as an assistant shepherd we follow the example of
the lead shepherd, the Good Shepherd of John 10:
- taking risks to ensure the well-being and health of the sheep
- wanting the best for the sheep,
- making sure the sheep have enough to eat and drink
- giving them a warm, safe place to rest away from trouble
- caring for the sheep when they’re hurt
- taking great joy when they are healthy, content, growing.
Christian Discipline.
Remember the theme of our
evening services in the summer of ‘99?
"One Another" - moving through
the scriptures, exploring this theme:
- care for one another
- encourage one another
- admonish one another
- love one another
- give to one another......
If you do a survey of these
passages, what you find yourself encountering is the mandate, the job description
if you will, facing the community of Christian priests. Your mandate as
a believer. Mine.
And, as you do that survey,
you’ll discover that laced through each of them is an attitude, the attitude
of Christian priests as they go about the task of disciplining, of discipling
-
it’s the attitude of LOVING CONCERN.
Loving concern that seeks the well-being of others.
Loving concern that hurts when fellow believers stray and cannot allow
them to silently continue in destructive patterns of living
that don’t conform to the pattern that God designed us to live in.
Loving concern that affirms and reinforces God-honouring, upbuilding, wholesome
ways of living.
Loving concern that does not seek to vindictively move members to the outside
or get rid of those that it finds a nuisance.
Loving Concern.
Loving concern is the attitude
behind Q/A 85. Right at the very beginning it speaks of "repeated and
loving counsel...."
Only 4 little words. But they are the most important words in that whole
process. These four short words take up the bulk of the time and energy
in the whole process. They are the words that energize the whole process
of living together as Christian fellowship – ongoing support, care, encouragement.
The "One Another", day by day, sort of thing.
And then comes the rest of
the process described in Q/A 85.
The special times - recovery
times when things go off the rails.
That’s how it is in the world of athletic discipline, too. You have the
regular process of training, practice and exercise. But then there are
bruises, sprains, pulls and breaks. When injury occurs special therapy
is needed. Recovery methods are employed. Restorative measures are sought
to speed healing and bring things back in line.
In the world of faith we have special measures for the times when spiritually
things fall out of line and need to be brought back. Which is why we read
from Matthew 18.
Matthew describes some steps for Christian discipline work:
Step One:
Building, repairing and moving across relationship bridges to the other
person we seek to serve as priest; trying, by way of these bridges, to
draw the person away from his or her damage-causing travels and back into
wholesome life with Jesus.
This is the step that takes the most time; the step where we expend so
much of our effort. It’s also the quietest step. Doesn’t make the headlines.
Isn’t reported in the bulletin or shared publically.
It’s the most effective step. The best work is often that done quietly,
one on one.
But sometimes it has to go
further. Step two:
When blunt and willful, deliberate disobedience to God’s ways remain while
the person still claims that all is well. Then the church leaders, with
deep sorrow, and on behalf of Christ, have to challenge them and say,
"Your actions speak of your faith - and it is not well. You are outside the limits of Christ. You are effectively through your patterns and fruits of living showing yourself to be outside of the Body of Christ."When that happens they are not to be part of communion celebrations.
Notice that this applies
to those who are part of the faith community, who claim to be members in
good standing and truth, and yet live something very obviously different
so that it is a public, loud case of double-speak:
Saying one thing with their voice
but another with their actions.
Then the community of priests
comes to them and says, "What gives." The bluff is called. You can’t
have the cake and eat it too. It is saying, "Perhaps there’s some religious
game you want to play, but God is not fooled. We cannot play along."
It is refusing to aid and abet a person’s sense of spiritual confidence
when there ought not be any.
Which, as I hope we understand,
is far different than coming down with a sledgehammer on everyone we find
who is struggling in their life in some way;
everyone who doesn’t meet up to some standard that we in our minds lay
down as being the bottom line.
The desire of the Christian community of priests is to guide, however possible, that person back to the Lord. The guiding takes many different forms - some painful, even surgical; some joyful.
And through the whole process,
conducted in loving concern, is a deep dependence on the Holy Spirit -
because ultimately it is not we, the priests, who bring about change in
peoples’ lives. That is the job of the Spirit.
Our job is to model the loving concern of Jesus, to provide the setting
within which He carries out the miraculous sculpting of new lives.
Our job is to pray, with and for each other; to pray long and hard; to
pray expectantly; believing that the Spirit will bring change.
That is our job. A job that
is, as we said at the beginning, filled with danger and the possibility
of error, for those who practice it.
But even more dangerous for those who ignore it. For then the sheep scatter.
Then they are easy prey for wolves and thieves. Then we will be left empty-handed
when called to give an account to the Good Shepherd.
And for those times we fail?
For they DO
come, for all of us.
It is certain that somewhere we will make an error in judgement, or be
overwhelmed by our own circumstances, or blinded by resentment or anger
or want of personal gain, or feeling too tired, or.....
Then it’s good to remember that the Lord is our Good Shepherd,
too, and that He has placed other priests to guide us. And that He, the
Great Shepherd, is also the sacrificial lamb. He gave His life as atonement
for our sin - including discipling sins.
He grants new beginnings - also in discipline.
And in that freedom we can dare to walk the process, move tto the next step, and continue to try.
For He restores.
He blesses.
He empowers.